The Good Girl Syndrome

I was a good girl so I thought, then it happened... Life. Somethings in my life and through out my life took me places I never intended to go and kept me longer than I ever wanted to stay, Often times we as women get so caught up with the image or the illusion of what we think a good girl is, we try so hard chasing it in the hopes of catching it, and putting it on as if its some type of garment we can just put on and take off when we want to be naughty. As we mature or shall I say get older, because some of us are still not mature in our minds just our bodies, we then are face with good and evil as well as intent and motive, now this is all together another ball game because these things are what alters and shape our very lives. I wanted like so many women to be a good girl but little did I know that there was a real...bad devil that had plans for me just like God did, and there would come a time in my life that I had to choose, and that moment would be crucial to my future and my ending as far as where I would spend eternity, which is way longer than life here on earth because it has no ending. Anyway I made my choice, I choose God and that's when the picture became crystal clear and I began to see that in my own strength and by allowing the devil to be lord of my life all that I was ever going to be was a good girl destined for a bad hell and nothing more, and now through the eyes of God I see I was never intended to just be a good girl, but a redeemed soul! and my gender just happened to be...

( a girl)
notice the cross is holding this symbol up!

Open Your Prison Doors fr Within!...Be FREE!!!

We were given the keys to our prison doors but sometimes we become afraid to use them for various reasons, sometimes we just get so comfortable with the sin that we are in that even though we know that some of the things that we are doing are wrong we still continue to choose that wrong thing. We have somehow allowed the very things that imprisons us to be our constant companion, because change means growing and growing means pruning, which means somethings we have to simply CUT off and leave behind in order to move forward and grow! and that's where we often draw the line and become slowful and often times even stagnate, because it challenges us and its not easy on our flesh. Sometimes in choosing to be free we become afraid of the unknown and that's when you open the door to fear, and the devil just takes over from there, because right then in that moment you have become afraid and chose fear over faith, and the enemy operates and manipulates through fear, you have simply given him access to your life, and guess what he is using your very own key to reek havoc in your life! and all he did was show you an image in your head of a python snake which represents the problems and issues in your life, suggesting that you believe that your issues are somehow just to big and will take to long for change. While all the while its just a tiny garden snake. He just put a magnifying glass it front of it so that your problems will appear bigger than they really are! and the keys that the Lord have given you will somehow appear to be over shadowed by your issues, that (python snake) and the devil will even suggest that your keys are just too small to open that big lock suggesting that your keys simply don't fit, But don't believe that LIE!! You see God is the master key bc over 2000 years ago he defeated the enemy and became bondage so that we could become freedom and we have to choose to walk in it! The Word of God says that he first descended went into hell and snatched the keys from the enemy, to death, hell and the grave so that we wouldn't have to according to Ephesians 4:9-12 and Revelations 1:17-19. We just have to receive it in our spirits and unlock our own prison doors using God as our master key! Just like Paul and Silas prison doors swung open when they were consume by the spirit of God and began to sing songs and praises unto God, you can do the same! So be free woman or man of God! because freedom rightfully belongs to you if Jesus is your Lord! take your life back!!!

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I'm Falling In Love... And beginning to Look Just Like my Father.

I find it quite amazing to be falling in love with God in the midst of so much pain, my finite mind can't quite comprehend such a thing, but I feel it catapulting me right into the place where I suppose to be with the tears from my pain leading the way for others! So from my misery to my ministry there is a lot of pain but I choose to stay focused on all of the souls that are yet to gain. You see if you stand to close to the Rivers of the Living God you just might get wet! Not only was I just standing to close to the edge just admiring the view and the beauty and splendor of his glory I fell in and got completely saturated and I have never been the same from that moment till now, it's very real to experience intimacy with God communing with him and getting lost in his very presence, it begins with a yes and taking one day at a time and choosing to do the right thing daily and reading his word getting to know him, and your desires will slowly become his desires, you will begin to love what he loves and hate what he hates as your love affair with the master overtakes and consumes all that you are and have been, and replaces the old you in exchange for the new you, and you will begin to look just like your father and be in his likeness and his image,  and the mirror of your soul will simply  eventually be a reflection of him.

Seeking Employment?... Now HIRING!!!

What a Real Marriage Is...

In my opinion a real marriage is simply a United Front, united means something that has been joined together and have become one, and front means the foremost part of an ARMED force, the furthest position that an army has reached and where the ENEMY is or maybe engaged. 
You see when you put those two definitions together it simply reveals the way a marriage is suppose to be, two people who have become one (army) and are able and equipped to overcome the enemy (devil) and his tactics and schemes against them, and they will be able to see him from afar through the eyes of God, and the two will not have to fight because the battle belongs to the Lord and not them, all they have to do is show up dressed for battle in their uniform of UNITY! 

Were You Down for the Count...But Came out with a Shout?!

10 Ways to Know He Don't Know God..So He Don't LOVE You!

1. He never even mentions God or suggest the two of you go to church.

2. He never has any money to help you in any way 

3. You are always paying for EVERYTHING

4. You Have to always pick him up and pay for the gas

5. If you do go to church you have to put offering in for the both of you

6. He always suggest to leave your kids and his at home so just the two of you can be alone

7. He never accepts that you are a mother first bc he wants to be

8. He is always peeping around corners when he is on his cell phone, but tells you when you call he's out of minutes

9. He never encourages or compliments you

10. He always come over at night or late evenings and leaves in the morning...AFTER breakfast of course

My Sista..He Don't Know God...and He ShO Nuff Don't Love You!

p.s YOU ARE NOT THE ONE or HIS ONLY ONE!!! 

Love yourself better than that :-)

If He Don't Know God...Then he Can't LOVE you!

Ladies if you think your Mr.Right has found you then ask yourself the following questions...

1. Does he love God with all of his heart and soul and place him above no other?

2. Does he love you as if you were himself?

3. Dose he put you first?

4. Do he love your children as if they were his own, even if they are not biologically his?

5. Does he meet your needs ( gas, food, bills, etc) and some of your desires

6. Have you met his family and friends

7. Does he take you out in public..in the daytime

8. Does he respect you and his mother

9. Does he trust you with his secrets or fears

10. Has he spoke of marriage with the intentions of you being his wife.

 (for all of my Sisters)

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Do you have a Resolution or Revelation for 2014?

Do You Have a Resolution or Revelation for 2014?

Often times we make so many resolutions at the beginning of new year only to find ourselves later in the year breaking each one of them, our intentions are good in our head but revelation begins in the heart, because its a God thing, you see that is the difference! We can break resolutions because its manufactured by mere man which is us...But very seldom can we get away from revelations because they are designed of God himself to change your very life in an instant! and that is everlasting!! A Revelation comes from intimacy with God because that which he reveals to you is often heard through your quite and alone time with him weather through dreams or prophetic words or just reading his word he speaks all of the hidden things that your soul inquired him of in your private time before him. So once again I ask do you have a resolution or a revelation?


One more thing...

The root word of revelation is simply... REVEAL!!!!